PATIENCE SINCERE AND GRATEFUL

Living in the world is always accompanied by a live exam. Whoever it is, although the levels vary from one person to another. For that there needs to be a sense of patience, sincerity and grateful undergo examinations in life

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Why have to be patient?

Because:

1. Patience is a "Dhiya" (a very bright light). With patience this is someone would be able to reveal the dark. Rasulullah Saw says "... .. and patience is a bright light ... .." (Narrated by Muslim)

2. Patience is an active attitude, to change the conditions that exist, so it can become even better. However, patience is not synonymous with submission and surrender to the existing conditions or because the patient is keterdzoliman refrain from the nature of anxiety and a sense of emotion, then withhold oral from complaints and to hold members of the body of acts that are not targeted

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Why be sincere? 

 Because:

1. Sincere run something merely because God will support the emergence of patience in dealing with life test. 2. Sincere is the patience to face a sense of arrogance in a person.

Why be grateful? 

 Because: 

 1. Grateful to get closer to God, karea Allah will not allow his servants who are patient and give thanks for trying.

2. Grateful means indicates a person of faith is if the patient and when he sad he senanng grateful

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So between the patient, sincere and grateful interrelated and support each other for our success in running the life of the world. That is be patient for what is not owned and grateful for what they own. Thus life is not greedy. Planning, endeavor and reap the rewards is a common process that had to be carried out as a servant of Allah Swt.

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Allhu Akbar.......Allah is the Greatest......Subhanallah

Ever think that humans as a servant of God often neglect to worship God? Yet God is so very dear and love of the pious servants. Conceived as a human being we should be very grateful because man is the noblest creature of all God's creatures, especially if blessed with abundant wealth, a handsome face, intelligence, etc. harmonious family. But despite it all, instead of closer to God, which is even more distant with God. They would fall asleep all the gifts, the pursuit of worldly possessions to forget the time to worship God worship, too much love and affection in the family that I forget the greatness of Allah's love. Naudzubillah mindzalik.

Behold, the man given the gift of wealth, was entrusted of God alone. In most of the property is owned by the poor. So if they fail to give alms to the beneficiary so watch the wrath of God, in the form of revocation of all these pleasures. If Allah had willed, who can escape? therefore immediately infakkan partly your treasure according to the provisions outlined in net for the treasure of religion and the heart was calm, not greedy and stingy and have a caring attitude for others. It was called a guidance (guidance) of God so that we continue to run "straight" in His ways.

As for all-round man of God who lives not anxious and worried deficiency. God is knowing the limits one's fortitude in accepting the trial of his life. Verily Allah is behind the temptation there is wisdom that people will realize if they want to think. Besides, not with the trials of life that will make us closer to Allah? . One thing is for sure not to ask for help to other than God because God is so jealous that would make God's wrath and during 40 days of prayer and our worship is not accepted by Allah SWT. Naudzubillah mindzalik.

So with the above description let us always pray for blessing for life and guidance may always be with us during life's journey in the world. Do not we live in this world is just a little while? after we die, there will be no life is more lasting and immortal.Only which we address next, in heaven or hell depending on the behavior during the life of the world. Truly God is great affection for all people in the world. Subhanallah ... ... Allahu Akbar.

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I'm Lion Not Goat

A young lion cub, separated from its mother. Feeling lost, he entered in the goat community to grow up with a flock of goats. Until one when she was mirrored in a river and saw that he was different with the community. With the help of information on elephants, he knew that in fact he is not a goat but a lion that gallant "Aaaauuuum ....". Lion found himself after getting an honest mirror, plain, objective. Advisers who are not open disgrace close them carefully.

 

Did according to lions, discover the unique advantages and unique self, according to your talent "... every man do according to their respective nature" (Surat Al-Israa: 84). So who are you? Only you yourself are able to answer. Sometimes a person's hidden potential, therefore, do not be afraid and ashamed to develop a personality with much to learn anywhere and to anyone. Did not we live on is the school and everyone is our teacher?

Hum Pim Pah Let's Changed

A thief was dazed stare open door, like the liver into the house. The house is the house of a widow who had just left her husband dead. It is clear the situation in the house, the widow who is fast asleep, a table full of delicious food and a cupboard where the jewelry is stored. But the voice of his conscience to remind an advice of the Messenger of Allah SWT value of life that she had heard from the mosques that: ".... Any person who left something in forbidden condition, he would get it in a lawful condition." At the end of the story, the next day asking for help to the widow of the Prophet Saw to find a husband and the will of Allah, the Prophet chose thief turns out as husband of the widow. Subhanallah. That yesterday he was forbidden to touch because it is not lawful for him right now because his property had become his property.

 We have to change. Changing energy into light. Change darkness into brilliance. To change to the spirit that inspires. It's not as easy as pimp ah hum, not as light as turning the palm hand.Difficult not mean you can not, right? Actually we do not lack arguments to motivate themselves. No less a story for reflection. No less a jerk disaster soul. The problem is willing or not to immediately turn and walk. Courage to change is a matter of conscious choice options of the risk and responsibility. Maybe these will disappoint, but enjoy. That sincerity, and sincere with no limits .. Because if there's a limit sincerely mean no more sincere, not really ?

Empathy

A new baby born a few days thrown by her parents in the trash. The news was written in a newspaper the City ... .. What comes to your mind?. The word that came out of course is feeling sorry for the baby. And if we want to be able to pick and nurture him like a child of their own. Such feelings are what is called empathy. Actually what empathy? How empathy can we have? Is there a need of training yourself to get it?
Empathy comes from the Greek "empathea" which means "physical attraction" so it can interpreted as one's ability to recognize, perceive and feel the feelings of others. According KBBI, empathy is a mental state that makes people identify or find themselves in the same state of mind perasaanatau with another person or group of others
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Empathy is not limited to the sense of feeling. Because human experience is characterized by the term empathy is not limited to feeling alone. Empathy, too. get people involved. Empathy makes people act. So empathy is the ability to know and understand how other people's feelings and role in the struggle tsb.

The ability to empathize is built on 3 basic:
(1) Self-awareness.

According to Daniel Goleman more open a person's emotional self, the more skilled person to empathize.

(2) The ability of people to read the nonverbal messages of others.
As we know emotion rarely expressed in words is generally expressed through gesture, then the ability to read non-verbal messages such as: tone of voice, gestures, facial expressions, etc. silence is the key.

(3) sensitivity and awareness to other people.
The third basis is rooted in compassion fellow human beings. Hard to imagine how a person can be sensitive and caring and genuinely involved in the struggle to live each other without any mercy to them. Twelve kasihlah that encourage people to voluntarily get involved in the struggle lives of others, sensitive and care about their needs, lack of compassion, generosity, very real look at psychopaths, criminals, rapists and addicts of violence, especially violence within the family.

Empathy is our need.Because will make us accustomed to seeing things from the other side. Empathy will make us able to quickly separate the people and problems. With empathy will encourage us to better how to solve a problem than how to attack people.

People who are not capable of empathy would be a failure for him. 're Not people who have the skills to adapt to empathize more emotionally intelligent, more popular even they generally succeed in romance and in social life despite their IQ mediocre. For that we need to practice empathy in a way:

 (1) Train yourself to realize himself / herself sensitive

 (2) Train myself to look at the problem from another angle

 (3) Train yourself to read non-verbal messages of others

 (4) Train yourself involved in the struggle of other people's lives

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Shame

Every human being must have a sense of shame. Either ashamed of God, friends, parents, community or even to yourself. Clearly there is shame on us. But do mate, what and how should her "Shame" is it?

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Holy Prophet said: alhayyu la illa yathi bihkohiri. Shame it does not bring in, but only kindness. The shame in this case is in berbudu character. His message, that we as believers must always adorn ourselves with ahlak shame. Because shame is a basic character in a person possessed. With a sense of shame, will prevent us from sinning or being uncomplimentary to others and prevent us from all disobedience. In addition, shame is the character of Islam, and partly from faith in someone who will protect us from all sedition and evil persuasion. With shame we can turn the hearts of yearning and love peace

But, be careful you know make no mistake putting shame on the development of "self actualization" we, because it would also hamper the development of potential self. What is the meaning of self-actualization? According to Abraham Maslow in the book Hierachy of Need, he used the term actualization (self-aktualization) as the need and highest achievement of a human. Self-actualization needs include the need to satisfy the existence of self (self-fulfillment) through maximizing the use of ability and potential.

Maslow defines self-actualization as a stage where one person's spirituality abound with kreat.ivitas, intuition, joy, joy, love, peace, tolerance, kerendah attention, and have a clear life purpose and mission to help others reach the stage of spiritual intelligence.

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