A new baby born a few days thrown by her parents in the trash. The news was written in a newspaper the City ... .. What comes to your mind?. The word that came out of course is feeling sorry for the baby. And if we want to be able to pick and nurture him like a child of their own. Such feelings are what is called empathy. Actually what empathy? How empathy can we have? Is there a need of training yourself to get it?
Empathy comes from the Greek "empathea" which means "physical attraction" so it can interpreted as one's ability to recognize, perceive and feel the feelings of others. According KBBI, empathy is a mental state that makes people identify or find themselves in the same state of mind perasaanatau with another person or group of others
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Empathy is not limited to the sense of feeling. Because human experience is characterized by the term empathy is not limited to feeling alone. Empathy, too. get people involved. Empathy makes people act. So empathy is the ability to know and understand how other people's feelings and role in the struggle tsb.
The ability to empathize is built on 3 basic:
(1) Self-awareness.
According to Daniel Goleman more open a person's emotional self, the more skilled person to empathize.
(2) The ability of people to read the nonverbal messages of others.
As we know emotion rarely expressed in words is generally expressed through gesture, then the ability to read non-verbal messages such as: tone of voice, gestures, facial expressions, etc. silence is the key.
(3) sensitivity and awareness to other people.
The third basis is rooted in compassion fellow human beings. Hard to imagine how a person can be sensitive and caring and genuinely involved in the struggle to live each other without any mercy to them. Twelve kasihlah that encourage people to voluntarily get involved in the struggle lives of others, sensitive and care about their needs, lack of compassion, generosity, very real look at psychopaths, criminals, rapists and addicts of violence, especially violence within the family.
Empathy is our need.Because will make us accustomed to seeing things from the other side. Empathy will make us able to quickly separate the people and problems. With empathy will encourage us to better how to solve a problem than how to attack people.
People who are not capable of empathy would be a failure for him. 're Not people who have the skills to adapt to empathize more emotionally intelligent, more popular even they generally succeed in romance and in social life despite their IQ mediocre. For that we need to practice empathy in a way:
(1) Train yourself to realize himself / herself sensitive
(2) Train myself to look at the problem from another angle
(3) Train yourself to read non-verbal messages of others
(4) Train yourself involved in the struggle of other people's lives
Empathy comes from the Greek "empathea" which means "physical attraction" so it can interpreted as one's ability to recognize, perceive and feel the feelings of others. According KBBI, empathy is a mental state that makes people identify or find themselves in the same state of mind perasaanatau with another person or group of others
.
Empathy is not limited to the sense of feeling. Because human experience is characterized by the term empathy is not limited to feeling alone. Empathy, too. get people involved. Empathy makes people act. So empathy is the ability to know and understand how other people's feelings and role in the struggle tsb.
The ability to empathize is built on 3 basic:
(1) Self-awareness.
According to Daniel Goleman more open a person's emotional self, the more skilled person to empathize.
(2) The ability of people to read the nonverbal messages of others.
As we know emotion rarely expressed in words is generally expressed through gesture, then the ability to read non-verbal messages such as: tone of voice, gestures, facial expressions, etc. silence is the key.
(3) sensitivity and awareness to other people.
The third basis is rooted in compassion fellow human beings. Hard to imagine how a person can be sensitive and caring and genuinely involved in the struggle to live each other without any mercy to them. Twelve kasihlah that encourage people to voluntarily get involved in the struggle lives of others, sensitive and care about their needs, lack of compassion, generosity, very real look at psychopaths, criminals, rapists and addicts of violence, especially violence within the family.
Empathy is our need.Because will make us accustomed to seeing things from the other side. Empathy will make us able to quickly separate the people and problems. With empathy will encourage us to better how to solve a problem than how to attack people.
People who are not capable of empathy would be a failure for him. 're Not people who have the skills to adapt to empathize more emotionally intelligent, more popular even they generally succeed in romance and in social life despite their IQ mediocre. For that we need to practice empathy in a way:
(1) Train yourself to realize himself / herself sensitive
(2) Train myself to look at the problem from another angle
(3) Train yourself to read non-verbal messages of others
(4) Train yourself involved in the struggle of other people's lives
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